Codependency, Narcissism, and What Boundaries Have to Do with Both of Them

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“A perfect shitstorm” is how Terri Cole herself calls this combination.

Are you a codependent? Are you with a narcissist? Or do you show qualities of both?


To check this is scary – what if you do? But to check it is also crucial if you want to move forward (go deeper? or maybe end?) with your relationships, including the one we have with ourselves.

In her quick Youtube video, Terri Cole (whose videos on boundaries and emotional manipulation I cannot recommend highly enough!) deconstructs the concepts of codependency and narcissism, also telling us how this interaction goes — and how it ends.

Save yourself years of shitty relationships. Invest those 18 minutes into learning about these concepts and equipping yourself with the language that will allow you to spot what’s happening.

PS. The second season of my podcast is coming! Please subscribe to it on Spotify or on Youtube if you haven’t yet!

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